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What does it really take to win in one of the toughest housing markets in the country?

In this episode of The Madison Podcast, Ben Lavender sits down with Femi Adebanjo, a 24-year real estate veteran whose approach goes far beyond just showing homes. This is a masterclass in strategy, psychology, and straight-up truth about buying in today’s market.

From reading sellers like a book… to knowing when buyers are sabotaging themselves… to understanding why “waiting for the crash” might be costing you more than you think—this conversation pulls back the curtain on what actually gets deals done.

📘 What You’ll Learn

Why the highest offer doesn’t always win (and what actually does)

The subtle behaviors that can make or break your offer instantly

How top agents guide buyers without pushing them

The dangerous myths buyers believe that cost them homes

Why your first home shouldn’t be your dream home—and why that’s a good thing

Key Takeaways & Timestamps

00:00 – The Mentor Mindset | Why experience and relationships still dominate in real estate

02:00 – Winning Without the Highest Offer | How sellers really choose buyers beyond just price

05:00 – The Psychology of Sellers | Why respect and emotional connection can beat money

08:30 – Buyers Are Losing Deals (Here’s Why) | Common mistakes that instantly kill your chances

11:30 – The “Box-Checking” Strategy | How great agents guide buyers toward smart decisions

16:00 – The Truth About Your First Home | Why perfection is the enemy of progress

20:30 – Waiting for the Market Crash? Think Again | The reality behind timing the housing market

25:00 – Buyers vs. Their Own Expectations | How comparison and ego derail smart decisions

29:00 – The Career Advice Every Agent Needs | Why authenticity beats trying to please everyone

32:00 – Integrity Over Commission | The long game that actually builds a lasting business

🤝 Let’s Connect

Host: Ben Lavender | Instagram: @blavmtg

Guest: Femi Adebanjo | Instagram: @femitheagent

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